DD/lg is Not the Same as Incest Role Play

Being in a DD/lg relationship does not equate to practicing incest role play or mean that either partner has an incest fantasy either. Those aspects could be present but are not inherently present in this type of relationship. Furthermore, incest fantasies are one of the most common fantasies out there, and DD/lg is a far less common relationship dynamic, so most people who do have such fantasies or who do engage in that type of role play are not even in DD/lg relationships. In many DD/lg relationships, little space time and sexual time are kept completely separate, but that is not always the case.

Using the Titles of “Daddy” and “babygirl” Is Not Incest Role Play Either

Using the titles of “daddy” and “little girl” or “babygirl” does not equate to incest role play any more so that using other similar, and far more commonly used titles or terms of endearment would equate to the same. Couples calling each other “baby” is extremely common and socially acceptable, and most people can understand how this alone does not equate to incest fantasy or incest role play.

Is Sexual Little Space Incest Role Play?

It could be argued that engaging in sex while the little is in little space, rather than keeping those things separate, constitutes incest role play. But I wouldn’t necessarily agree. Having sex while in an age regressed state of mind, all by itself, is no more incest than having sex while in a drug/alcohol induced mental regression. A person’s psychological or emotional state during sex is not what role play is about. A person’s mental state is a different thing than what they are fantasizing about or whether or not they are acting out those fantasies.

What Is Incest Role Play Then?

An incest fantasy is when you fantasize about incest. Incest role play is when you actually act out those fantasies. Role play goes beyond simply using titles, having a caregiving type of relationship, mentally regressing into little space, or even having sex while in that state of mind. Incest role play would involve playing out actual incestuous scenarios, such as pretending that the daddy and the babygirl are actually related and exchanging dialogue to that effect during sex to match. Even amongst couples that do engage in incest role play, its more often a general incest fantasy, and not one where the daddy is thinking about his real-life daughter, or where the babygirl is thinking about her real-life father. Of course, those things could be the case in some relationships too, but it is far from commonplace, and is quite ignorant and judgmental to assume that is the case just because two people are in a DD/lg relationship.

Incest role play is on most people’s list of hard limits. But if a couple does choose to engage in that type of role play, it is just that – role play! There is nothing necessarily wrong with having such fantasies. Having dirty thoughts is not a crime, nor should it be. If it were, I’m certain we’d all be damned. There is also nothing wrong with two adults acting out each other’s fantasies in a safe and consensual way. What people choose to do in the privacy of their own bedrooms in really none of anyone else’s business and is not for anyone else to judge.