Category: DD/lg
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Sexualized Little Space
Consenting to Sex While in Little Space Once a little regresses they are no longer capable of consenting because they are in an altered state of mind. Because of this its necessary for the little to give consent in advance. This type of pre-negotiated blanket consent is called consensual non-consent. With this type of consent…
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Daddy and babygirl
He spoils babygirl nonstopShe sucks on Daddy’s lollipop He’s a leader she can followShe sucks him dry and always swallows He always smothers her with kissesShe opens wide while he pisses He helps her achieve all her goalsShe takes his cum in all her holes He spanks her ass when she gets sassyShe sucks him…
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Daddy Kink
What is a Daddy Kink? Having a daddy kink just means than you like to call your partner daddy, or that you like your partner to call you daddy, and something abut that resonates with your sexuality. You don’t have to be into DD/lg to have a daddy kink. It is extremely common for women…
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Interaction Between Daddy and babygirl
We’ve talked a lot about what a DD/lg relationship is, the care giving and power exchange dynamics of it, and different types of role play that might take place. But what does the relationship look like in terms of dad-to-day interactions? What sort of activities are Daddy and babygirl doing together specifically that are rooted…
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Aftercare
What is Aftercare? Aftercare is an important part of BDSM that should not be overlooked. Aftercare is time that is set aside immediately after the scene is over for, as you you can probably guess from the name, caring for each other. It’s a time for the couple to re-connect outside of the scene. It’s…
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Bratting and Funishment
What is a Brat? What is Funishment? The submissive may also be breaking the rule intentionally because she is a brat and wants to be punished. This is another topic entirely. There’s no reason bratting can’t be part of your dynamic in a DD/lg relationship, but it doesn’t have to be. Not all littles are…
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Discipline and Punishment
What’s the Difference Between Discipline and Punishment? Discipline is an internal force that deals with the issues of evaluating personal motivations and mastering self-control. Punishment on the other hand is an external force which attempts to discourage behavior by associating that behavior with pain or discomfort. “Discipline” and “punishment” are often used interchangeably, but the…
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Rules
Everyone Has Rules, Written or Not BDSM relationships often involve written rules. Actually, all relationships have rules, it’s just that outside of BDSM they tend to not be written down. For example, if the husband or wife in a vanilla relationship were to leave the house without saying anything to the other, without the other…
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Contracts
What is a BDSM Contract? A BDSM contract is written agreement that outlines the expectations and goals of the relationship. Each person is making certain promises and commitments to the other. Contracts actually exists in all relationships of every kind, kinky or not, romantic or not, but more often than not they are non-written contracts…
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Limits
In Healthy Relationships, Boundaries are Always Respected A huge Part of any health relationships is respecting each other’s boundaries. An enormous amount of emphasis is placed on this concept in the BDSM community. We can be incredibly detailed and specific about what we like and don’t like, and we do not have any tolerance for…
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Total Power Exchange
What is Total Power Exchange? Total power exchange (TPE) describes a relationship that has the highest possible level of power exchange. Total power exchange is when the dominant is free to dominate his submissive at any time and in any way he chooses without having to obtain consent first because he has already been given…
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Consent
Consent is Complex Consent is a complex subject. “Yes” does not always mean yes, and “no” does not always mean no. Consent can be present in one moment and revoked the next. There is one-time consent and there is on-going blanket consent. Consent can be based on a lack of information in which case it…
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Collars
Collar Meanings Collars come in a very wide variety of styles, materials, and colors. Sometimes specific types of collars are closely associated as having a particular use or a particular meaning. But that does not mean that you can’t use those collars in different ways or that you can’t assign any meaning you want to…
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Incest Role Play
DD/lg is Not the Same as Incest Role Play Being in a DD/lg relationship does not equate to practicing incest role play or mean that either partner has an incest fantasy either. Those aspects could be present but are not inherently present in this type of relationship. Furthermore, incest fantasies are one of the most…
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What Is Age Play?
It’s a Type of Role Play Whereas age regression refers to regressing into little headspace, age play refers to a type of role play where a person pretends to be an age other than what they really are. These are two very different but sometimes complimentary things. In DD/lg age play involves the little going…
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What is a Little?
In simplest terms, a little is the submissive partner in a CG/l relationship. A DD/lg relationship is a type of CG/l relationship where the dominant is in a caregiver role, and the little is the one being cared for, physically and emotionally. Of course, you don’t have to actually be in a CG/l relationship to…
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What a Daddy Dom Isn’t
It Isn’t a Bad Thing, It Isn’t Incest, It Isn’t Pedophilia BDSM is often very misunderstood and stigmatized by society. There is a great deal of ignorance when it comes to Daddy Doms in particular and being a Daddy Dom is perhaps the most taboo topic related to BDSM because of that ignorance. To the…
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What is a Daddy Dom?
A Daddy Dom is Both a Daddy and a Dom Now that you have an idea of what a Daddy is, and what a dom is, you can begin to understand what a Daddy Dom is. As the title suggests, a Daddy Dom is both of these things at once. To recap, a daddy is…
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Dominance and Submission
Power Exchange Dominance and submission is all about power exchange. Power exchange is simply about the giving and receiving of power within the relationship. The power in a power exchange relationship is intentionally imbalanced. The sub wants to have less power and the dom wants to have more power, in order to achieve a mutual…
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An Introduction to CG/l
What Is DD/lg? DD/lg stands for Daddy Dom / little girl. This is a relationship dynamic, and a sub-category of two other more general relationship dynamics, CG/l (Caregiver / little) and D/s (dominance and submission). Within this dynamic the dominant partner is known as a “Daddy” and is in a caregiver role, while the submissive…
Daddy Doms & Little girls 